Larry Hagner – Understanding Your Avoidant Wife and How to Reconnect
Do you ever feel like no matter how much effort you put in, your wife keeps pulling away? It’s gut-wrenching, frustrating, and can leave you questioning everything. But here’s the truth: you can’t fix this by pushing harder. Avoidant behavior often stems from past wounds or unmet needs, not rejection of you.
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In this episode, we’ll dive into the roots of avoidance and how it affects relationships. I’ll share personal insights and practical strategies to reconnect with your wife by leading with curiosity, creating a safe environment, and practicing patience. If you’re ready to move past the frustration and rebuild connection, this episode is for you.
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Larry’s Takeaways
- Avoidant behavior often stems from past pain.
- Replace criticism with curiosity.
- Patience and trust rebuild connection.
What You’ll Learn
00:00:00 – Creating A Safe Environment In Relationships
00:01:13 – Understanding Avoidant Behavior In Wives
00:01:58 – Working Smarter Not Harder In Relationships
00:03:02 – Recognizing The Impact Of Past Trauma
00:04:01 – Knowing When To Give Space
00:05:31 – The Importance Of Patience And Non-Confrontation
00:08:34 – Listening To Your Partner’s Perspective
00:12:42 – Leading With Curiosity Over Criticism
00:14:49 – Prioritizing Consistency Over Intensity
00:15:41 – Inviting Conversations With Vulnerability
00:18:04 – Engaging In Constructive Feedback Conversations
00:18:54 – Exploring Resources For Improving Relationships
00:19:12 – Taking Action Towards Better Relationships
Links
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